is there enough of you to go around? for those of you with more than one child, do you feel like there is enough of you to go around? it is a daily struggle for me. Who do I hold, which two get to sit on my lap while reading? whose hand do I hold. who gets the first kiss when I come back from the Supermarket. I try to keep it natural, but you know that is harder than it may seem. Because the kids are different ages, there are times when girl2006 really needs me and boy2001 can get along by himself. He doesn’t seem to mind those times which is great, takes a lot of pressure off but I still feel it’s really important to give him preference sometimes. I’m sure this will persist for a while, right now it seems boy2001 gets one on one attention after the girls are put down. It’s cutting into mommy/daddy time but I think it’s really important to him or daddy or I to do legos or read or do anytype of activity he’d like for an hour.