I’m watching Star Trek right now, The Enterprise Incident, and the Klingon Commander brings up a great point when interrogating Mr. Spock. Spock says he doesn’t want to take command and the Klingon Cdr. asks, “or is it that no one has ever asked you?”
That is so true, so many times I act like I don’t want something because I think I can’t get it, or it’s too far out of reach. In fact if someone were to facilitate or ask me, I would jump at the chance to do somethings. A great example is track, I would love someone to say, hey let’s walk some laps while the kids run. I do it sometimes but no one joins me. They all rather sit on their tuffetts and talk all their important gibberish. It would be so much nicer if it was organized for the adults as well, fit kids are great but they also need fit parents. I bet lots of people would join in but they just don’t know what they want.